ebb, flow, and the creative process: lessons in artistic rest
We’ve all been there—that moment where the creative well feels a bone dry. A while back, I shared a vulnerable update about lacking motivation, and the response from the Atlanta creative community was a "lightbulb moment" for me.
Several of you used a specific phrase that stuck with me: Ebb and Flow. The dictionary defines it as a recurrent or rhythmical pattern of coming and going—of decline and regrowth. I absolutely love that.
In a world that constantly demands "hustle," we often value the flow (the season of doing, creating, and inspired action) far more than the ebb (the season of waning, decline, rest). But I’ve come to realize that the ebb is just as necessary as the flow. In fact, one cannot exist without the other.
Why the "Ebb" is Essential // When I’m in a season of "Flow," you’ll find me at my desk in our home in Marietta, buzzing with ideas for new live wedding portrait techniques or sketching out custom venue guestbooks. It’s an exciting, high-energy state.
But when the "Ebb" comes, and I’m feeling tired or uninspired, I’m learning that it’s okay to rest. In fact, it’s required.
The Flow is for doing.
The Ebb is for regrowth.
Neither is more valuable than the other. Without the quiet moments of rest, I wouldn’t have the energy or the vision to bring my best self to your wedding day.
To My Fellow Creatives (and My Busy Brides): If you’re feeling a lull right now—whether in your business, your art, or even in the whirlwind of wedding planning—take heart. You aren’t "failing" at your process; you are just in the ebb.
I am so grateful for the community of people, many of whom I’ve never even met in person, who shared their experiences and bestowed this wisdom on me when I needed it most. It’s a reminder that life, like art, moves in seasons.
Looking Ahead: As I continue preparing for this busy 2026 Georgia wedding season, I’m carrying this wisdom with me. I’m honoring the days of rest so that when I show up at your celebration, I can be fully in the "Flow," ready to capture your most beautiful moments and your loved ones with intention and heart.
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Beautiful Cover Photo by Laura Eddy Photography
Watercolor Artwork Entitled “Marietta Square Fountain” by Jessy Winters